18-04-2019 08:51 AM
It is the hardest decision of my life. 😢
Im leaving the forum
psych and now dictir agree I’m on here too often and not doing me any good
i have a very heavy heart 😢
I don’t know what to say
nit sure if it’s the right thing
sobbing while I write this
I’m going to miss you all so much
you have all been a BIG part of my life
I’m really sorry 😢
18-04-2019 08:57 AM
@BlueBay 😥😥. I’ll miss you around the forums, but you need to do what you have to to take care of yourself. You have been a massive help to me and a great friend, I really will miss you.
Take care my friend, I wish you all the very best. ❤️❤️
18-04-2019 08:57 AM - edited 18-04-2019 01:31 PM
I personally think you should not be even considering this @BlueBay It seems your decision is based on the narrow view of a couple and not what you need for yourself. You have so many friends here that care about you. You have taken time out before and found you need the support that the forum offers so I hope it is just a little time out. Look after yourself Hon and we will, be here if/when you return
18-04-2019 09:08 AM
18-04-2019 09:23 AM
18-04-2019 09:42 AM
This sounds like a bit of a tough situation. It is great to read that you have been working with your doctors and mental health professionals around your wellbeing.
Did you discuss these feelings you have expressed here? It is really important you do what is best for you and if leaving is what is needed then we all support you.
Do feel free and welcome to know that you can always take a break and see how that feels, nothing has to be permanent and its important to keep working with your support network of professionals on how you can manage the feelings and thoughts you have expressed here.
18-04-2019 09:45 AM
18-04-2019 10:58 AM
It is so wonderful to see the support shared here, we all really appreciate your prescene on the forums but also do know that it is important to do what is beneficial to your wellbeing and that is up to you to work through with the supports like your professionals.
It would be useful for you to speak to your team about your feelings. Without knowing your fears or distress that you have expressed here they can't help you with a decision that works for you. Gaining support from professionals is really wonderful to recovery and they are there to work with you on what you need and what you want.
You have many supports both here and in your life outside the forums as we know and whatever decision is made you will continue to be supported @BlueBay ☺️
18-04-2019 11:02 AM
I agree with others here @BlueBay. I am sorry to see you go, and I will sure miss you, if you feel it is the right decision for you .... but I hope you will be back quickly if you find it is not working for you.
Big hugs coming your way. It’s a very difficult decision to make, but there is room to turn around if you feel you need to, do it’s not a permanent one in any case.
If you find it does help, then maybe you can pop back in and visit, further down your recovery road .....
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