28-04-2019 09:25 AM
Hugs and hugs @Faith-and-Hope 💐🌹💜
28-04-2019 09:35 AM
So very sorry ..... I know how much you are suffering and how much all this hurts. I have no words ........ but I care very much. Someone as wonderful as you should not have to lead such a difficult and complex life as what you do. It always happens to the very best. And thats you. Waiting is always hard ... I know. Keep breathing, keep distracting, stay calm, all will be well. Thats what I tell myself as well.
28-04-2019 09:36 AM
Offered him to come to “my”coffee shop just now ..... no, he had to drive to The Coffee Place for his daily coffee and breakfast .... he will get back just in time, or late, for our Easter lunch reservation, despite some of our baby dragons leaving shortly after to catch a plane ......
Here, but not here .....
28-04-2019 09:38 AM
28-04-2019 09:39 AM
Here with you @Faith-and-Hope Enjoy your lunch with your baby dragons Hon and let him do what he does ...you cannot change it so go with what you can control and that is the time with your kids. Very much hearing you though
03-05-2019 11:59 PM
Not too bad @outlander, thank you. Managing ......
I am tired though, but that’s no surprise. I have been staying up late completing visual diary work for the last week. It needs to be done, but it also helps me to cope with all the emotional chaos around here.
My mr. didn’t go west last week, and I found the ten or so days a long stint to be in the company of his ed behaviours ..... and the rest. The kids were all here, which amped up his need to be territorial, and he took over all the Easter preparations, and showered the kids with expensive gifts. Mood wise he was swinging around too.
This week he has stayed longer in the west, in part because our house is being shifted. The first step to doing it up and selling it. That’s pretty emotional for me too.
Everything around him seems to happen at 100 km /hr.
04-05-2019 09:38 AM
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