26-03-2019 10:39 PM
26-03-2019 11:08 PM - edited 26-03-2019 11:49 PM
i am sorry I have neglected you. It is not that I haven’t been thinking of you, but I have been in a really dark place myself and feeling very alone. I tend to retreat when I am like this.
You have certainly had such a lot going on and all high impact emotionally. I really feel for your brother and SIL at this time and the decisions they are confronted with.
And all that you have going on at home. You are an amazing woman I never cease to be impressed by what you can deal with.
it is no wonder you get so much support here.
please know that I am thinking of you
26-03-2019 12:12 AM
Thoughts for you too @Peri 💐💕
26-03-2019 07:43 AM
No notification from earlier post here either @Sherry but got the last one
You are certainly still dealing with so much and the common thread with everyone in your family seems to be the waiting time for any answers - that is extremely frustrating and nerve-wrecking Hon. It is so difficult when you don't know what is happening for everyone in your life and yet you are still trying to stay strong for everyone. That in itself is drining without having to also deal with your own mental health issues.
There is very little we can say in this really difficult time apart from we are here for you and so willing to support you in any way we can. We care very much for you and what you are going through Hon. Sending you many hugs and warm thoughts and letting you know we are sitting with you when needed @Sherry
26-03-2019 10:09 AM
Not really too sure what to say ... sending ever so gentle thoughts your way.
26-03-2019 05:19 PM
26-03-2019 05:31 PM
26-03-2019 05:33 PM
You are stuck in a no-win situation right now @Sherry and it is no wonder you are feeling as you are. Wherever you turn there is someone that needs your attention but you can't be everywhere - and it is also so important you look after yourself too. All the waiting is excruciating but you cannot change that either - sometimes these things just take time to happen - that doesn't help you, your mum, your brother or hubby but you can only control what you can for the time being and then deal with everything else as it happens.
Walking with you through it all as it does unfold and glad you have a soft place here to land in the meantime
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